Sunday, September 1, 2013

The Dangers of Being Transgender

Last month a friend of mine, a transgender girl, a member of one of my support groups was walking home after attending an event just two blocks from her home. She was stopped by four guys, I intentionally won't call them men, with less that honorable intentions. Verbal abuse began the encounter which soon degraded to physical violence. Fortunately for her, in her previous life, she had some martial arts training which she was forced to use. She wound up in the hospital overnight along with two of her assailants, one of whom spent two weeks there. Personally I'm glad that she had that training perhaps it kept her from becoming yet another victim of Transgender murder. This summer a transgender girl was murdered near here in Rochester, New York. That's to close to home for me. Yes even here in America it seems that it is open season on transgender individuals.

Each fall Spectrum of WNY hosts a transgender day of remembrance where a memorial is held for all the transgender individuals murdered during the last year. Each individual name read off, this usually amounts to several hundred from around the world. One report that I read stated that in 2012 at least 265 transgenered individuals were murdered. It's estimated that around the world five transgendered persons are murdered. Admittedly there are some countries that are over represented on this list. But the sad truth is that far too many of the murders are from right here in the good old USA. The Inter American Commission on Human Rights states that transgender murders are 50% higher in Canada, the USA and South America than that of lesbian and gay murders.

In November of 2008 Teisha Green was murdered in Syracuse, New York by Dwight DeLee. He shot her as she sat in a car and said loud enough for those around to hear, “this country doesn't need any more fags.” He was convicted of manslaughter as a hate crime and sentenced to 25 years in prison. His guilt was never in question. It was daylight, there were witnesses to his actions and his words. Yet last month he was released from prison having served only four years of his sentence. His conviction was overturned on a technicality. Apparently someone somewhere was convinced that the judges instructions to the jury were not clear enough. He was guilty of a hate crime, that much is clear. His guilt was never in question yet today he walks a free man. What kind of justice is that I ask?

And as if murder and violence isn't enough for us to worry about. Recently the Huffington Post ran a report about Paola a student at Albany. Paola moved to Albany from Puerto Rico and became a student in collage there. Paola shared an apartment with a couple of other roommates. Once the roommates found out that Paola was transgender they harassed her. The harassment eventually turned to threats of physical violence. Paola turned to the landlord for assistance and was promptly given 30 days to vacate. I wish I could say that these are only isolated cases but they are all to common.

Year after year we sit and watch as states and even the federal government pass laws giving minority groups equal protection under the law. African Americans, gays and lesbians have been recognized as minorities that deserve protection. Yet routinely any reference to transgender protections have been stripped from all such measures. Ten years ago a bill was introduced in Albany that would give a measure of legal protection to us transgendered individuals. For six years the New York Assembly has pases this measure known as GENDA (Gender Expression Non-Discrimination Act) yet for those same six years the state Senate has refused to pass the measure. And this even as several cities in the state pass similar measures.

Is it not enough that I have suffered for decades, that I've risked family, friendships and personal relationships. The actions of the country I love and my state seem to be saying that anything goes as far as I'm concerned. Violence and even my murder will be treated lightly. That I can be denied medical assistance or given substandard care. I've already lost one job, home and pension, I've lost my church, my wife and I now live apart. Yet it's perfectly OK for my current employer to fire me for no other reason than I'm transgender. The apartment manager where I live now can tell me to vacate for no better reason than I regularly dress as a female. But I am transgender, I cross gender boundaries, why should I expect to be treated as a human being.

Anita